Gifted Coaching FAQs
Mentally speaking, gifted people often work more by “skip-stepping” and “meta-thinking” through ideas and feelings rather than going linearly via step-by-step logic. In working with a gifted coach or mentor who understands - and shares - this statistically uncommon mental pattern and rhythm, gifted clients often find relief for being able to move at their own pace while simultaneously being understood by their coach/mentor. Gifted clients also benefit immensely from the insight provided by their coach's/mentor's knowledge of the mechanisms and structure of the gifted mind. Gifted coaching and mentoring are both a logic process - learning how one's gifted mind works and how to use it well, and an emotional process - feeling safe to be and explore one's gifted self in the presence of a gifted professional who understands.
Working with a gifted coach or mentor also helps combat misdiagnosis. Since giftedness often masquerades as other issues, such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, and so on, gifted people risk being misdiagnosed. Working with a gifted coach or mentor allows you to sort through what is due to your giftedness, what is due to other potential factors, and how you can best thrive based on your unique intelligence and mental health profile.
Many of our clients come to us after having completed one or sometimes several therapies with non-gifted coaches or therapists, which while somewhat beneficial, did not succeed in helping them understand the complex functioning of their minds and did not ultimately get to the heart of the matter. A therapist, coach or mentor who is not aware of the pattern and experience of gifted cognition may not grasp the profound roots of the complex self- and relational theories their gifted clients create, and thus may not offer help at the level of complexity and intensity at which the help is needed. Cognitively speaking, gifted clients sometimes quickly “outgrow” non-gifted therapists or coaches whose reasoning speed and comprehension differ significantly from their clients'. This “cognitive mismatch” has been known to lead gifted clients to feeling stifled or even betrayed by the same coach or therapist that was initially helpful; sometimes leading a gifted client to conclude that either they, their coach/therapist/mentor, or the coaching, mentoring or therapeutic process itself is (or sometimes all three are) flawed. This can at times initiate a kind of self-defeating cycle of skepticism for the gifted person: he needs help, but becomes skeptical of the possibility of receiving it.
InterGifted's Coaching Network was founded to help make these challenges easier to resolve, both by providing easier access to gifted coaches and helping professionals, and by helping gifted clients to know how to seek and find appropriate help from a gifted coach or mentor whose approach and level of cognition are a good match to their own.
Send us a message with a bit about you, your giftedness discovery journey, and what you're looking for in working with a coach or mentor, and we will help you schedule a free session with one of our coaches/mentors. If you have budget limitations, let us know that as well, so that we can factor that into our recommendation.
The number and frequency of sessions depends on your needs and goals. Some clients wanting to evaluate or learn about their giftedness take only one or a few sessions. Others who desire ongoing support for career change, relationships, parenting, trauma recovery, ongoing mentoring, other more complex goals take ongoing sessions for months, or sometimes even years.
Yes, and we will help you throughout that process. Many times, gifted clients are working on several themes at once or consecutively (such as entrepreneurial or career goals, self-care goals, and parenting goals) and want to work with more than one coach or mentor at any give time. You can also work with our coaches and mentors consecutively, depending on your needs, budget and timeline. We help you create a customized plan to maximize the effectiveness and efficiency of your coaching/mentoring efforts, and to help you continually find the support you need in the various aspects and phases of your life.
Our coaches and mentors all work via Skype or phone for anyone around the world, including kids, couples, and families. We also work in person, when possible, in which case many of us have our sessions in casual and comfortable settings, such as in cafés or during walks in nature. For those who prefer writing to talking, many of our coaches also offer written sessions (via email or chat).
Since our coaches/mentors are all over the world, costs range from 100 USD per hour to 185 Swiss Francs per hour. Please let us know if you have a specific budget limit when you contact us, so that we can be sure to recommend the best fitting coach to you, including from a financial perspective. Most of our coaches charge by the session only (no packages), and have flexible rates for clients in financial difficulty.
No. Our coaches collectively offer sessions in the following languages: English, French, Italian, German, Dutch, Polish, Finnish and Swedish.
Our coaches and mentors are sensitive to financial limitations and some of us can offer flexibility, depending on your situation. Send us a message and let us know about your situation and budget limits, and we'll let you know if we may be able to accommodate you. In any case, if coaching or mentoring is strictly out of your budget or if you prefer to start with a less costly option, joining our InterGifted Community or peer groups is a great option. It is not coaching or mentoring, per se, but it does connect you to many well-meaning and fellow gifted peers around the world, and the discussions there are very constructive, enriching, encouraging and motivating. We'd be happy for you to join us there!
We are actively seeking gifted coaches and other helping professionals to be part of our network. If you don't have training specific to helping gifted people, we provide that. Email us to schedule a get-to-know-you call with IG founder Jennifer Harvey Sallin.