GIFTED COACHING & MENTORING FAQs
Mentally speaking, gifted people often work more by “skip-stepping” and “meta-thinking” through ideas and feelings rather than going linearly via step-by-step logic. In working with a gifted coach or mentor who understands - and shares - this statistically uncommon mental pattern and rhythm, gifted clients often find relief for being able to move at their own pace while simultaneously being understood by their coach/mentor. Gifted clients also benefit immensely from the insight provided by their coach's/mentor's knowledge of the mechanisms and structure of the gifted mind. Gifted coaching and mentoring are both a logic process - learning how one's gifted mind works and how to use it well -, and an emotional process - feeling safe to be and explore one's gifted self in the presence of a gifted professional who understands.
Working with a gifted coach or mentor also helps combat misdiagnosis. Since giftedness often masquerades as other issues, such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, and so on, gifted people risk being misdiagnosed. Working with a gifted coach or mentor allows you to sort through what is due to your giftedness, what is due to other potential factors, and how you can best thrive based on your unique intelligence and mental health profile.
Many of our clients come to us after having worked with one or more non-gifted helping professionals, which while somewhat beneficial, did not succeed in helping them understand the complex functioning of their minds and did not ultimately get to the heart of the matter. A helping professional who is not aware of the pattern and experience of gifted cognition may not grasp the profound roots of the complex self- and relational theories their gifted clients create, and thus may not offer help at the level of complexity and intensity at which the help is needed. Cognitively speaking, gifted clients sometimes quickly “outgrow” non-gifted therapists or coaches whose reasoning speed and comprehension differ significantly from their clients'. This “cognitive mismatch” has been known to lead gifted clients to feeling stifled or even betrayed by the same professional that was initially helpful; sometimes leading a gifted client to conclude that either they, their coach/therapist/mentor, or the coaching, mentoring or therapeutic process itself is (or sometimes all three are) flawed. This can at times initiate a kind of self-defeating cycle of skepticism for the gifted person: they need help, but become skeptical of the possibility of receiving it.
Our network was created help make these challenges easier to resolve, both by providing easier access to gifted coaches and helping professionals, and by helping gifted clients to know how to seek and find appropriate help from a gifted coach or mentor whose approach and level of cognition are a good match to their own.
Send us a message with a bit about you, your giftedness discovery journey, what you're hoping to accomplish or discover via coaching or mentoring, and your budget and location, and we will connect you with one (or more) of our coaches/mentors.
The number and frequency of sessions depends on your needs, goals and budget. Some clients wanting to evaluate or learn about their giftedness take only one or a few sessions. Others who desire ongoing support for career change, relationships, parenting, trauma recovery, ongoing mentoring, or other more complex goals take ongoing sessions for months, or sometimes even years.
I'm working on several goals at once. Can I create a custom coaching/mentoring plan to work on them all?
Yes, and we will help you throughout that process. Many times, gifted clients are working on several themes at once or consecutively (such as entrepreneurial or career goals, self-care goals, and parenting goals) and want to work with more than one coach or mentor at any give time. You can also work with our coaches and mentors consecutively, depending on your needs, budget and timeline. We help you create a customized plan to maximize the effectiveness and efficiency of your coaching/mentoring efforts, and to help you continually find the support you need in the various aspects and phases of your life.
Our coaches/mentors will let you know if they feel that some or all of your needs fall into the scope of therapy rather than coaching, and they or our support team will assist you in connecting with a gifted-knowledgeable therapist that fits you well. If you feel you want to start with therapy, send us an email at email@example.com and we will assist you in finding a therapist who fits you. This service is free of charge.
Many of our clients like to start with a qualitative giftedness assessment, as it provides a clear look at your unique cognitive profile and opportunities, and includes customized coaching/mentoring or other recommendations. If you're unsure, consider having a free intro session with one of our coaches/mentors to explore what it might be like to engage with us, and we can help you make a plan step-by-step. Just sent us an email at firstname.lastname@example.org and we'll be happy to explore the options with you.
Our coaches and mentors all work via Skype or phone for anyone around the world, including kids, couples, and families. We also work in person, when possible, in which case many of us have our sessions in casual and comfortable settings, such as in cafés or during walks in nature. For those who prefer writing to talking, many of our coaches also offer written sessions (via email or chat).
No. Our coaches collectively offer sessions in the following languages: English, French, Italian, German, Dutch, Polish, Finnish and Swedish.
Since our coaches/mentors are all over the world, costs range from 75 USD per hour to 225 Swiss Francs per hour. Please let us know if you have a specific budget limit when you contact us, so that we can be sure to recommend the best fitting coach to you, including from a financial perspective. Though some of our coaches work via pre-paid session packages, most of our coaches charge by the session only and have flexible rates for clients in financial difficulty.
Our coaches and mentors are sensitive to financial limitations and some of us can offer flexibility, depending on your situation. Send us a message and let us know about your situation and budget limits, and we'll let you know if we may be able to accommodate you. In any case, if coaching or mentoring is strictly out of your budget or if you prefer to start with a less costly option, joining one of our courses/workshops or partner projects, our InterGifted Community or a peer group is a great option. They are not coaching or mentoring, per se, but they do connect you to many well-meaning and fellow gifted peers around the world, and the discussions are very constructive, enriching, encouraging and motivating. We'd be happy to have you!
We welcome gifted coaches and other helping professionals to become part of our network. If you don't have training specific to helping gifted people, we provide that. Email us with your background and tell us about your (developing) coaching practice in order to explore whether you're a good fit for our network.
EMAIL US TO GET STARTED
Email us at email@example.com or via the contact form below to tell us about where you are on your giftedness discovery / integration journey and what kind of coaching or mentoring support you are looking for at this time. We will get back with you right away to connect you with a coach or mentor.